I met a man in may 2008. things were fantastic. we moved in together in july 2008, then i moved into his house in march 2009 and we had a baby girl born may 2009. in october 2009 we went out to the rugby and he got leathered. he was so drunk he urinated in someones front garden on the way home and was walking in the middle of the road. when we got home he became very angry and was shouting at me very aggressively for reasons i could not understand. at one point he ran upstairs to where i was in bed and burst intothe bedroom shouting and yelling at me and raised his hand to hit me. I cowered under the bed sheets stupidly thinking theyd make it hurt less if he did hit me. I ran when he went downsairs and locked myself in the bathroom but then he came back up and was banging on the door so hard i thought he was going to come through it. he went then and i didnt see him again that night or following day. sometime during all this he had phoned my dad to tell him to ring me and check i was ok, when my dad rang i was distraught and terrified. nothing my dad could do.
things calmed down after this for a while- although it took about a week and he didnt offer any apology for what he had done.
things were okish until january when he started shouting at me again at around 4am. i lay there pretending to be asleep and he stormed off downstairs to rant to himself on the sofa and watch tv. he was also shouting at our daughter for crying around this time which made her more upset. also shouting at my son who is 4 years old and he said to me that he didnt like the man because he shouted all the time. i took the children and moved to my parents for around a week but my parents, being christians, urged me to give him another chance. so we all moved back again.
On mother's day at arond 4am he started again so I got out of bed calmly and went to sleep on the sofa downstairs. he followed me down and was ranting about money. he threw the cushions and pads off the sofa with me sat on it. i was so scared i was curled up in a ball on the sofa shouting at him to get away from me. then we went ot for a meal at lunchtime with my parents and he was nice as pie, as if nothing had happened. the children were both upstairs when this was going on.
things were ok ish until easter sunday when he lost his temper again after working nights in work. He shouted at me very aggressively again with the children in the room, upsetting my son. he then shouted at my son which made him even more upset. he stormed out of the house so i locked the front door to keep him away from us but when he returned a short while later he was bashing the door and threatening to break the door in. he asked my son to open the door which he then did. i took the children out for the rest of the day to keep out of his way but then got text messages all day saying that i had left him alone over easter and how bad it was that he had to spend his one day off over the easter weekend all alone.
two weeks ago my purse got stolen from the pushchair whilst on holiday in essex. that night at around 11pm he woke me up inthe hotel room having downed a full bottle of wine in the time between casualty- when i had fallen asleep- and 11pm. he was ranting about money again. i pretended to be asleep and he got tired of ranting at me and left the room. i didnt want to lock him out because i figured there'd be trouble if he bashed the door in the middle of the night in a hotel, the next thin i heard was him throwing up violently in the hotel bathroom. in the morning my son needed the toilet and a shower but the bathroom floor, sink and worktop were covered in vomit. i asked him to clea it up and he was still swaying and slurring his words and found he whole thing hilarious. i told my son to stay away from him because he was drunk on too much adult pop. i had to cover the bathroom floor and carpet outside the bathroom with hoteel towels and carry my son into the bathroom. it was foul. he was souting at my son who was very upsetand didnt understand what was going on. i kept saying to him that my son was only 4 but he carried on ranting at him none the less. eventually he left the hotel room leaving his key card behind so i knw we were safe. he rang my dad and my dad could hear he was drunk from his speech so told him to leave us alone and get the train home, which after a day of abusive phonecalls to me, my parents and friends in essex he did. I never went back there after that, when we got back from essex we came straight to my mums and have been here since. He has been texting to try and sort things out because he wants us all to be a family and that i'm cutting off my nose to spite my face, being stubborn. Thing is- I met him last sunday and said he could have one last chance to have the family he says he wants but he would have to admit he has a problem with drink and with anger and sort them out, then in the future maybe we could start dating really slowly keeping the chi
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