I know this girl, who i met because her husband and my wife had an affair. We are both divorcing our respective partners and are both in nasty custody battles. My wife got pregnant by her husband and although my wife asked my advice he has never told his ex wife (she aborted the baby after 3 months). I bumped into her before christmas, before i new about the pregnancy and we had a good gossip for 30 mins. When my ex wife got pregnant and her ex husband found out he told her loads of lies about me and told her to stay away, because of this i got back in touch with her and i now regard her as a good friend. She is very pretty and really nice and i guess i fancy her, but because of how we know each other and the fact that i am not fully over what happened with my ex wife yet i haven't done anytthing about it. For the last month when we have talked it is more about general things than what are ex are doing as they are supposedly still together. She does nice thinks like offer to clean my carpet cause the CAFCASS lady was coming around, or teach me how to do my little girls hair nice because me ex wife always used to do it. i felt sorry for her before mothers day because i didnt think her ex would get her anything from her son and he didnt and i wanted to thank her for her help so i had a bouquet of flowers delivered on mothers day. I just put that they were from her son, and not me. When she got them her ex husband told her she had an admirer and i havn't told her they were from me cause after i did it ithough it ws a silly idea and she might take it the wrong way, she did ask if i had sent them, but i diverted answering the question so as not to lie, but i think it started to freak her out as she didnt know who they were off. Sunday night she came around my house and we got quite drunk. We had a good chat and which got quite dirty, like what we liked doing sexually, and she said she was quite shy(?) and she went for personality not looks and things like that although nothing happened and i dont think it would have. She text me monday morning to say she had a bad head and we text each other throughout the day about 10 times, which we do somedays any way but then we wont be in touch for a few days. At 11.30 last night she text me to apologise as she said that she was being dirty on sunday night and didnt want to give the wrong impression. I said not to worry and asked what sort of impression she though she gave and she replied that i dont know her as well as her other friends and didn't want me to take it that i though she was being flirty (i hadn't until she said this). I just said she was being silly and we were both drunk and i we were being flirty then something would have happened and it didnt. She never responded so i text her telling her that shes got me worried and that i hope she didnt think i had taken it the wrong way. She said she hadnt, but said she felt a tw*t. So i text her back with, whilst were getting things of our mind i sent her the flowers and why id sent them and that i thought she might have taken them the wrong way, which is why i never said. She never replied so i text her back with i take it your cross, whose the t**t now.
I really like this girl and if something happened between us i wouldnt walk away, but id rather have her as a mate and know nothing is going to happen than say something and risk losing her friendship. What should i do?
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