We have had my partners 2 sons since Boxing Day and they are driving me up the wall!
Despite the fact that I have been full of flu all over Christmas I have still had to wait on the little so-and-so's hand and foot. The same happened last year but I thought it might be a bit better this year...I was wrong.
Firstly, they didn't want to come and stay because they'd had an Xbox for Christmas so we had to put up with long faces and 'when am I going home', they shut up long enough to open their presents at our house and when they realised there was nothing looking like a console they started moaning again.
I want them to go but my fiance is refusing because he said it's his time with them. Our house is a tip from top to bottom, crisp packets and sweet wrappers all over the floor, spilled drinks on the carpet because they can't be bothered to look where their putting their feet - I know this is just irritating stuff but the worst is they don't flush the toilet after themselves and leave dirty tissue all over the house. I am expected to fetch and carry for them because they can't be bothered to move. We took them out yeaterday and they played up constantly I was so embarrassed I have refused to take them out again. I have tried to talk to my fiance about it but there is always a fine line isn't there? At the moment we are arguing about him having his kids at our wedding next year. I don't want to be worrying about them on the day but he want's them there even though I know they'll show us up.
I came back to work today and the younger ones words were 'But I want a drink!' as I was leaving.
The boys are 8 and 6.
I've got to put up with this till New Years Eve! Apart from lots of booze and very strong drugs, is there anything else that can get me though the next couple of days without packing my bags?
Having been portrayed as the evil step mother by most of you, I would like to point out that I don't have kids of my own and never wanted them. I am not expecting my partner to stop seeing his kids I would just like a bit of consideration - it was supposed to be my holiday too.
Thanks to their messiness I came a cropper on Boxing Day and ended up flat on my stomach with bruised legs and a mangled wrist, though I suppose you feel I deserved it. I've tried desperately to get them involved in various things that don't involve a console but to no avail.
Oh and they don't 'do' cuddles and love it's 'girly.'
What is going on here???
I don't 'do' strong drugs or alcohol I was just trying to lighten a situation that had got me very down.
I am the Fiancee not the Surrogate mother. I only wanted some advice not abuse. I can have that at home thank you.
On the whole I feel worse so thanks. I don't think i'll bother going home tonight i'll just go straight for the drugs and booze after all and with a bit of luck I wont wake up, then situation will be solved!!!
Happy now? One less evil bitch in the world to contend with.
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