My partner and I have been together for just under a year. We've had an amazing time and done lot's together, but not enough.
We are really good together, very loving, passionate, easy talking, caring for one another, but we moved in together far too early as a means of saving money. Still, we have had a great time living together and getting to know each others real aspects.
About a month ago she told me she is unsure of her feelings for me and we have been back and forth a couple of times now and it has, until now, been swept under the carpet. Still, she tells me that she cannot express her feelings for me in words and how she could be throwing everything away, but she has to be truthful, which I highly respect and is one of the many reasons I love her. She has never been so unsure about any of her other partners and ends with them clean cut, but from what she says, we are different.
We have to continue living together for about 3 weeks, and in that time we have mutually agreed to remain making our times as nice as possible, so cuddles, sleeping together, wine, massages, but I know we both feel pain and uncertainty. We are both moving out from one another and she said she never wants to shun me.
Now, obviously I don't know the future, but I see two options. 1, being that we move in our own directions realising that we are better off apart, or 2, we miss each other, reassess our feelings in ourselves and for one-another and continue our relationship, and from what I hear, some people return stronger together. Neither of us can hold back or expect anything, so there can be no chasing or forcing, but I can't help but feel something that tells me it can work if we step back for a while.
I understand this is a fairly common question, but I would just like to know if any of you have had a similar experience and the way it worked out. I have never had such a pain in my heart, or the determination to continue after going through something like this. I'm 23 going on 24 and fairly mature for my age.
Many thanks in advance
Thanks for your answer. Of course I want what ever makes her happy, even if that does not include me. I think I will take space than she asks for, and see how that makes us feel.
*give her more space than she asks for... can't even type anymore!
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